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Are you a victim of the following scenario and looking to get your ex back fast?
Picture this...
Your relationship is going great. You're in love and having the time of your life. Then one night your partner goes out with friends, and stays out a little later than expected and doesn't call. You get jealous. You get angry. You stew for hours, and when they come home, it turns into a gigantic argument.
Things get said that you don't mean. It turns ugly...and FAST! And next thing you know, you've broken up. Days go by without a word. You think about things. You realize you over-reacted. You realize it was a misunderstanding. You didn't mean the things you said. You find yourself emotionally charged and thinking, "I want my ex back, but they won't even return my phone calls now."
So what do you do?
Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Is there a way to start the process of getting your ex back?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call, and I'm going to share them with you right now.
Cool huh?
I'm often asked, "I want my ex back. How can I get them to return my phone calls?"
I'm going to provide you with an answer to this question.
BUT...
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WARNING!
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You're gonna need a complete plan and strategy to get this to work right.
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
Luckily, I've put together the ultimate plan for how to get your ex back.
You can find it here.
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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. This can be the ultimate ending to your relationship if you say the wrong thing.
The wrong things to say usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. I've been trying to reach you for several days now. I really, really NEED to talk to you!"
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. I need to get a hold of you right away, so please call me back ASAP."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
If you want to give yourself a fighting chance at getting your ex back, then avoid them at all costs.
Now for a super cool tip!
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self interest!
And here's the BIG SECRET! You might want to jot this down.
When you combine curiosity and self interest, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'.
Let me give you an example of something that works nearly every time!
In a casual, friendly tone leave a message such as:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
This is a killer combination. Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! He will immediately be thinking, "What did I do? What does she appreciate?". And the positive tone will make him feel good.
Now, before you do this, you need to have a plan, a set-up. You need to figure out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing, but it needs to be plausible. You don't want to just make something up or say it if you don't really mean it.
But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like the one laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Understand? This WILL work for you, if you do it right.
It boils down to this...
What you do before, during and after you get your ex to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense? Follow the plan and you CAN get your ex back.
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