After a breakup, you may be wondering, "Does my ex want to get back together with me?" However, before you ask that question, there are a few things you need to do first. It's very important to sort your own feelings out FIRST before you start worrying about what your ex may or may not want and whether or not getting back with your ex is a possibility.
First, have you given yourself time to assess the break-up so you can identify what went wrong? It will do you no good to get back with your ex if previous relationship problems haven't been identified and remedied. To do this properly, you need to give yourself time and space away from your ex so you can think clearly. This also gives your ex time to sort out their feelings and to miss you. By taking some time out for yourself first, you can better assess your ex's actions to determine if they want to get back together with you.
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If your ex does decide they want you back, here's some things to look for to help you determine exactly what they're thinking.
1.) First Move- Did your ex make the first move to get back in touch? If your ex is making an effort to contact you via emails, phone calls, texts, etc. then chances are they still want a relationship with you. People who are truly done in a relationship won't make the effort to stay in touch.
2.) Interaction- If you're out and about and happen to bump into your ex, do they act friendly and nice or do they appear distant and attempt to avoid you? A friendly demeanor is a good sign there's still feelings and hope that the relationship can be saved. In this case, the chance to get back with your ex is a definite possibility.
3.) Flirting- Does your ex still flirt with you? Flirting is a tell-tell sign that an ex is still interested. If they still call you pet names like babe or cutie or flirt with you, then you can count on there still being an attraction present. If the flirting is at all sexual in nature, then even better. Sexual flirtation is a sign of attraction. Friendly or casual flirtation may or may not be an indication of attraction.
4.) Jealousy- If you find that your ex seems somewhat sad or upset when they hear you are hanging out with someone else of the opposite sex, then they are still very much attached to you. As a word of caution, don't use this against them and purposely throw dates with other people in their face to make them jealous or you will ruin all chances of getting back together with your ex. However, if you're talking to them and mention you're going to the movies with someone and they seem disappointed or sad, then this can be a good indicator that strong feelings still exist.
Sort out your own feelings FIRST, and then pay close attention to how your ex interacts with you, and you should be able to tell whether or not your ex wants you back.
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